We are meeting with the lawyer next Thursday to proceed with the official divorce.  Under the state of Colorado all we really have to do is stay seperated for an entire year and meet every 4 months to sign documents.   We wen't together long enough to share money(we both have separete accounts), we don't have childern, we don't own anything except the honda.  The honda is in his name but i drive it.  Nathan told me to just keep it, he'll make 6 months of payments and then hand it off to me.  

I did end up meeting up with him jsut to discuss how things would be done, technocly the apartment is gone and has been gone, btoh of us had to pay 4 months of rent so we just split that up and i pay for 2 and he pays for 2....we're being civil...

my parents are soo incredibly pised that we eloped and i never once told them, and ive held off on any divoce proceedings for months but i think both nathan and i thought we could slowly work things out....if we can't work this out how on earth would we be able to work the rest of our lives out.

I told scott(the mail carrier) about the marriage and at the current moment he isn't speaking to me...i guess i should have mentioned all of this a long time ago.  oh well...i really liked him, so hpefully he forgives me...i even sent him roses to ask for forgiveness :)

alrighgy i gotta get to work now, im working overtime to finish up a project..so i may just stay at teh office till tommorow morning :)  woohoo...hopefully the coworkers and i can order chipotle for dinner :)